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“It’s the most peculiar time of the year”

Blogger of the year Chris Goswami shares directions for a contented January

December is different

If you are reading this you are probably over seven years old. I read somewhere that seven is the average age at which boys and girls stop believing in Santa. More interestingly some studies show that although children have positive feelings on learning the truth about Santa, parents are predominantly sad and even feel a sense of loss when their child discovers that Santa isn’t really coming (…and worse, was never going to come). Traditions are important to us – they bring a feel-good factor - traditions enrich our lives.
And there are loads of traditions around Christmas. Christmas gives us permission to wear our heart on our sleeve. It’s an excuse to connect with neighbours, colleagues and random people in the street as we engage in similar activities (the same ones we did last year). Carols, shopping, decorating, cooking, complaining.  

Christmas is also a great leveller, many of us light up our houses on the outside and decorate them on the inside whatever we happen to  believe. We give ourselves permission to talk with people we never met before in car parks and supermarket queues. Lights, trees and cards engender warm fuzzy feelings and there’s something about all of this that brings a sense of cordiality to strangers and security for ourselves.
I’m not saying it’s all hilarity and cheer, for some it can be the opposite but for most people most of the time Christmas makes us feel good about the world and good about ourselves. Our problems get put on hold.


January is different

January stands in contrast to December. January can be a dark and difficult month. Whereas in December we just don’t have time to stop and think, January can bring an excess of self reflection, too much thinking time.

The lights get switched off, TVs are restored to pre-Christmas schedules, and we are back at work in the same old job – or worse, gazing into another year with no job. I know people not prone to depression who nonetheless experience an immense lack of motivation in January. For some this can continue in some form until “the great lifting” at the end of March when we are routinely delighted by our old friend, the daylight.
If we know this is likely to happen to us, there are a few simple things we can do.
The main thing is to simply understand what is happening. Monday mornings are painful but they don’t last and January blues will pass in the vast majority of cases. And remember that your house looked really good BEFORE you put up all those lights and tinsel – so it will look just as good again when they are taken down – and a lot clearer.
Secondly, in some ways don’t we need the darkness of this world in order to properly appreciate the light? I sometimes joke with my work colleagues in California that I appreciate the sun far more than they do. I love clear crisp days in the winter and the sunshine in spring far more than they ever could. Living in the UK (and near Manchester at that) gives me an authentic reason to be glad for sunny days. We need the sour in order to appreciate the sweet.
Thirdly, never underestimate the sense of wellbeing we can achieve by simply doing something for someone else. “its more blessed to give than to receive” says Acts 20.25. This is not because of some “pie in the sky when you die”, celestial pat on the back we are lining up. It literally feels good to give your money or even better, your time. As well as Scripture secular studies back this view.
And lastly, it always profits us as Christians to take time to just pause at odd moments, and consciously recall the man of Christmas who actually does exist.

A God of hope who chose to enter a world of no hope. A God of love who chose to love unlovely people. A God of persistence who chased us down to bring us back to himself. This is mustard seed reasoning where old ways have to die to make way for new, where the weak things overcome the strong and the foolish things shame the wise.

Christmas is such an unlikely story isn’t it; but pondering the truth of it can bring us genuine “Christmas cheer” whether it’s December, January, or July.



Chris Goswami is Director of Marketing & Communications at Openwave Mobility and is studying and training for ordained ministry in the Baptist Church. He was recently named Christian blogger of the year for www.7minutes.net, where this article first appeared. It is republished with permission.

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